Some cultures are very gregarious and lively. They like loud music, speak to each other loudly, etc.

Which cultures have you found to be more reserved? Not necessarily cold or rude, just not as loud in public?

  • ZzangmanCometh@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    I’m Danish, my wife is Italian. The first time I brought our 4 year old kid back to visit my parents, her first words out of the plane were “why is it so quiet here?” Middle of the airport…

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      1 year ago

      I’m Polish. We’re consider loud where I live now (the Netherlands). For me Italians can’t speak. They need to scream to each other even if they sit together on bus.

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        1 year ago

        I don’t think the poles are as loud as the dutch. The dutch are just obnoxiously loud. Particularly when sports are on but even in the office, they’re just unaware of how much noise they produce

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        1 year ago

        I’m Italian, and been living in the Netherlands for 5 years. That country is loud as hell. Every time I go back home or somewhere else I notice it straight away. POVs I guess

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            1 year ago

            I thought that too, then I went to Indonesia for 13 months and I reconsider it. plot twist I’m mexican.

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            1 year ago

            I’m from Argentina. The porteños are loud. There is a lot of silence if you run away from the Buenos Aires, the Capital.

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        1 year ago

        I’m also Polish living in Netherlands, and I experienced a painful increase in public loudness and disregard for personal space after moving here. In Poland we don’t really talk in public transport much, in Netherlands I can’t go without noise-canceling headphones.

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      My parents were Danish immigrants to the states, we left when I was 3. It’s a pleasant culture shock now when I return. A sense of holding in developmental terms. No need to shout to be heard. In Copenhagen there are more bikes than cars. I lived in San Francisco for years till I moved back to Europe. The 38 Geary Bus was so loud it would shake my windows out near Point Lobos. Why they never bought MAN or Mercedes is beyond me. Americans put up with incredible Noise Pollution.

    • UnicornFartIn_a_Jar@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      We have lived 15 years in Denmark. Unfortunately our kids are very loud, and it’s even more obvious in a country like Denmark. However in Spain it doesn’t seem to be a problem :D

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      1 year ago

      My husband is Italian (I’m English) and I’m always having to tell him to turn the volume down when he speaks. I also had a Finnish friend who used to almost shout and I’d get embarrassed out in public seeing fellow Brits scorn at her speaking voice. Maybe it’s because we’re just not used to it.

    • Not-Not-Maybe@alien.topB
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      1 year ago

      Everything I hear about Denmark and the Danish people sounds incredibly lovely and wonderful. I would move there except I am afraid the weather would feel too cold for me. Other than the temperature, it sounds amazing.