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Cake day: November 15th, 2023

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  • Mine is Mexico, Caribbean side. Only left because of the drug related violence. I will go back as a tourist, but I didn’t want to get installed due to that violence.

    I’m traveling in Europe right now. People are so serious and frankly the bureau is dimming my light. You can’t really visit as you keep having to do paperwork for a good 6 intensive weeks and then again for weeks each time you switch country. You need to show proof of housing before you even get to the new country and because you need health car before arriving you are double insured about 3 months a year.

    I know it’s not like that for citizens, but for people who want to slow travel, it’s hell unless.you actually want to be a resident in one single country of the continent.




  • Some people just like complaining. They complain when you are not there, then they complain when you are.

    My relationship with my family was never good, but my mom said so many times that I never visited that after 2 years, I decided to go.

    I said I would be there between 11 am and 1 pm. I drove and arrived near 11:30. I rang the bell. My mom opened the door said: it’s you. I wasn’t expecting you before 1pm. She closed the door and went back to bed.

    I thought: ya now I remember why I don’t come home. When she woke up, I gently reminded her that she closed the door to my face. She denied doing it.

    I never went back. I was kind of thinking that maybe it wouldn’t be as bad as I remembered. It was worse.














  • I didn’t leave for better or worse. I left to discover and learn.

    Changing country is an adventure. Learning a new language isn’t easy, adapting to a new culture either, unless that is a big part of your goal then it becomes the end itself, the project itself.

    The paperwork is going to eat a whole lot of your time unless you already have citizenship in your new country or unless you’re in Europe and traveling as a Schengen ctitizen to a Schengen country.

    People always asked me but you’re moving there before even visiting it, what if you don’t like it, well then I had an adventure and came back home.

    As a foreigner in a new country, stability isn’t a good keyword. You are in the position of an outsider. You are the least stable person there. It may change eventually but count the time in years. Until you have at least permanent residency somewhere, you are never really stable. You are going renewal to renewal hoping they accept you again and again.


  • I make the same I was making at home, but spend 30% less according to surveys about standards of living. However these surveys don’t account for winters in my home countries that requires 2 sets of tires for your car, clothing for different seasons, sports equipment for different seasons, etc. Hence, I save more than 30%.

    I’ve been at it almost 20 years and I have a sustainable retirement plan.