That was shocking to me. In London, it is 3 weeks to see a GP, minimum. I had an urgent issue in my first week of moving to Sydney, called a GP and they said: ‘morning or afternoon appointment’. I was stunned and didn’t know they meant the same day. That being said, the ultrasound I needed took 2 weeks to get an appointment.
I see the similarities with my family. Everything was my responsibility - come visit, call them, email them, reach out in general and pay for things. Never once theirs. I gave up as the relationship felt very 1 sided and hadn’t been back to visit them in a over a decade. I gave up and they never even realised or proactively cared.
That being said, I had a Business trip in April that landed me about 30 minutes away. I told one sister I had time for dinner but no car so if she could be flexible on location, I would pay. Turns out my niece’s special needs school was 10 minutes from my hotel and the pick up time was similar so she came for dinner with my niece. That was the only time.
Still no phone calls or practice emails from them.