Hey there, currently facing a dilemma.
I’m not able to go back to my origin country for the holidays due to money, scheduling, flying in the winter being miserable, being horribly depressed just stuck in my parents house, and a friend recently moving to my new country and wanting to be there for them.
How do I even begin to tell my family that I’m not coming back? They’re trying to include me in a gift exchange (without having asked…), and just fully expect me to come back like I did last year. I’ve told them I don’t know about vacation time yet, but I’m not really sure what to say at this point.
Do I just lie and say I couldn’t get the time approved? Or do I tell the truth that I just don’t want to do all that travel and spend all that money…
I’m pretty shocked they haven’t figured it out yet- flights are expensive enough without booking last min! My family somewhat “expects” it as well. I’m from OR and living in NL. The best you can do is be honest- it’s not going to work out this year. But you may soften the blow by sharing when you think you’ll be able to visit next. Good luck!