wondering if anyone else experiences this…

in the states, I am perceived as foreign, when not in the states I am considered american. in the states, I feel like the culture is to either (1) lean in to being american (which comes with some implications of country, republican, etc) or (2) fight like hell to disassociate with America(ns). trying to figure out why that is.

personally, I have picked number 2. whatever the public perception of American is abroad is not something I want to associate with, but I cannot escape that due to my accent. I don’t really identify with a lot of the american maximalism, ethics, loudness, etc, but cannot seem to effectively communicate that to people who aren’t american.

has anyone else experienced this? I suppose if someone is so eager to put me in a box anyways, they aren’t worth being my friend…

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    1 year ago

    “A lot of Americans are quite loud about many of those “shared” American culture things, and they like to focus on the negatives of that shared American culture.” - My what a gross generalization.

    Every country has its unique characteristics and the US is no different.

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      I did not say all Americans and I did not say it is unique to Americans.

      So where is exaggeration?