I assume I’m not the only one who has been in this situation. When you’re in the country you now live in its a simple question to answer but if I’m on holiday in a 3rd country and someone asks this I never know what to answer. If I say the UK then I’m correctly saying my Nationality and as an extension what language I can speak most proficiently but I don’t actually live there. Equally if I say Germany I’m correctly saying where I currently reside but if their reason for asking is for my Nationality then this is wrong and it leads people to wrong assumptions about what language I want things to be in (Tourist Guides etc). Alternatively I can always say “Well I’m British but I live in Germany” but this always seems long winded and like its too much information. So I want to know how you all answer this.

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    I lived most of my life abroad, with a quarter of a century in the States, where people are obsessed with accents. I always found that question intrusive, even rude, and so goddam tiring - I equal it to “where is the baby due” that very pregnant women constantly get. So, I answer with “why do you ask?” Tit for tat.

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      Hahahahaha that’s a good one! Yeah that question is so rude. It’s always done in the middle of a conversation about something else. Like "drop everything now and explain to me that you don’t belong here, you outsider "

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    🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 living between 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 & 🇪🇸…I just say I am British 🤷🏻‍♂️ but feel 🇪🇺

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    Im an existential logotherapist born and raised in England parents originally from Kashmir and Afghanistan living and working in Hanoi Vietnam for the past two years. Just proves how absurd life is.

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    I’m Irish/British - grew up mostly in the UK, but I always just say ‘Irish’ in Croatia. I’m all talked out about Brexit and I can’t be arsed to explain the politics of being ethnically Irish whilst growing up in the UK in the 90s…. (especially to people who were actively fighting a war in the 90s).

    Plus Croats generally have a very positive view of Ireland/Irish people so it’s like an automatic ‘oh you’re fine’…. whereas Brits have the same reputation they have in tourist destinations all over Europe (drink too much, spend too little).

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    I just simply answer where I am actually travel from to that country. Easy, and they will never get the answer they expected!

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    When on holiday I just say, “England” or “The UK”

    I’m ethnically Filipino but a British Citizen and most people are happy with the above responses.

    Now if someone continues on and asks why I look Asian, then I say, “my parents are from the Philippines.”

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    Where are you from is not where do you live. The question is asking about your origins. You’re from the UK. 🇬🇧 See!