I know. I’m from NYC and have had friends going back to the 89s when things were really tough. I saw went they went through. Still shouldn’t be happening. I’m sorry.

I don’t know the answer to this but I wish you all the best. We are in almost 2024 and sexual orientation shouldn’t be a question anymore

I went back and forth with my now husband before I moved. I lived right outside NYC and him in Venice. We wanted to pursue the relationship but I would have been the one giving up everything. Imo get to know her a little bit more before making such a big move. Yes. You gain love. But you give up alot too. Good luck with whatever you choose

We take so much for granted in America. Big eye opener when we move to other countries. It’s not perfect but no place is

This! I’m from NYC and Iive in Venice and I hate it! Yes it’s beautiful but nothing to do. I’m always bored. I would say try to hang in there until you can get into your own space.