Why can’t he go to India for a few weeks?

Come back for birth and get settled in with baby and then go back to India. Are parents in financial position to hire some help in India? Bring an extended family member home to help? Then your husband can have a little peace of mind.

Also plan to have your mom or siblings around post birth for support.

Find a way to make it work so no one feels abandoned during a trying time. Don’t hand ultimatum and create more pressures

Tell him not to make huge decisions while under emotional stress