I bought a $7 kit from ikea with ladles spatula tongs spoons that I have been taking with me everywhere. I feel like half of my accommodations only have 1 spatula and 1 knife I have thought about buying a knife as well but idk if that would get me flagged 😭

To add on to what others said regarding the Schengen Zone. Since you are an american you may visit the Nordic countries (denmark, iceland, sweden, Finland and Norway) for a combined total of 90 days after staying elsewhere in the Schengen area for 90 days through the nordic bilateral agreement. You will still after your nordic stay need to exit the schengen area for 90 days before re entering. (I just did this myself)