For those who’ve lived in both Europe and the USA, I would like to hear your take. What do you love about each place, and what drawbacks have you noticed? Whether it’s the Old World charm of Europe or the dynamic lifestyle in the USA, spill the beans. In the end, what was the game-changer that made you pick one over the other and if you could share the decision-making behind your preferred choice.
I actually find it quite similar. For me, Europe is a mix of socialism and a peculiar isolation, but it comes with the advantage of safety (both in society and from a career perspective), along with beautiful landscapes and travel opportunities. I appreciate the minimalist mentality of Europeans, although it can sometimes be a bit overwhelming for my personal taste. On the other hand, I find Americans to be more easygoing, easier to connect with, and generally friendlier. The weather and language, of course, earn points for the US. Overall, earnings and job opportunities are much higher in the US, but Europe has a better social welfare system. I would say that if you have no kids, the US is probably a better option. Additionally, I think Americans are more aligned with the mindset of immigration, making it easier to blend into society.
What do you mean by „minimalist mentality“?
less consumerism I suppose
Compared to Americans, Europeans (Germans, Dutch, French, and Belgians, based on my experience) tend to spend less money on material possessions and things like home renovations. Instead, they allocate more of their spending towards experiences, such as traveling and well being. Also they save a lot more and engage in less consumerism. In general, I’ve found both sides to be somewhat extreme, with exceptions, of course.
This is an awesome aspect- I’m American but think like this . I hate the suburban American lifestyle of keeping with the jones with a big house and suv etc - I’d rather travel and have experiences.
I agree with you. I find European cultures, architecture, nature, history, slow lifestyle awesome, but there is lot more generational trauma and sort of closed mentality towards others. I found people more jealous, men more animalistic, women are treated as garbage (this is true in most places, but I find the European societies even more outdated then say Canada).