Does anyone else have the experience of being in a relationship where you’re from different countries but you met and started a life in a third? And then you tried to live in either of your home countries but your relationship somehow works better when you’re in a third country?
Or am I alone in this? It’s a very strange existence.
Yep, neutral worked so much better for ages- we both defaulted to subconsciously doing stuff ‘how things are done here’ when we lived in a home country (he in his or I in mine) resulting in misunderstandings galore. We’re 20 years down the road now and moved to my home country in the summer because of reasons and I think we can finally do it. Or wait, is this why I think he’s being weird? ;-)