Does anyone else have the experience of being in a relationship where you’re from different countries but you met and started a life in a third? And then you tried to live in either of your home countries but your relationship somehow works better when you’re in a third country?

Or am I alone in this? It’s a very strange existence.

  • blackkettle@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    We stayed in the third country. Kids are born and raised in third country and it’s 12-14 hrs equidistant in opposite directions from our respective home countries and has a different national language so it’s very “fair” 🤣😂

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      1 year ago

      I begged my boyfriend to keep his job in Switzerland, but the lack of accessible childcare made things complicated.

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        1 year ago

        Yes we are in the German region so he learns Hochdeutsch and the local Swiss dialect in addition English and Japanese.