Just visited my home country (EU) and I am now returning to my expat country (US) and a wave of depression hit me.

I never considered myself to be very attached to my family or my country but after three years and now finally coming back to visit, last night I was extremely depressed. I created an overall good life for myself in the US and I don’t think I would ever see myself coming back to the EU to live permanently, but now I am at the airport leaving and I can’t help but feel an overwhelming sadness.

I’m wondering what experiences other people had in regards to this. Does it get easier? And is leaving after visiting always this sad?

  • Shinizzle6277@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Both of my countries, where I do live now and where my family is, that’s EU zone. I am honestly limiting my visits because it’s just feels sad, like I am more of a guest and not necessarily a family member anymore. I would say too, living abroad gave me more perspective, opportunities, and also I know that I can permit myself way more than back home.