As a middle class person I can’t afford a mortgage. Private sector rent is also high. I earn too much to qualify for social housing. My lower earning friends are therefore better off than me. We have the same lifestyle because they get a ton of rebates and they live in a cheaper and better place. I can save more, but they don’t care because the welfare state will provide them so no need for savings. They don’t see the point in earning more. Why do I bust my ass and take on more responsibility to earn more? Literally no point except misplaced pride, I was taught to ‘work hard’. The joke is on me. Better to do the opposite.

Brits love to bring others down to make themselves feel better. For example, rub it in your face if you made a ‘bad’ purchase.

It’s a cultural thing but I am very keen to trace the origins of this peculiar insecurity.

Most expats eventually return home. Family is a big magnet.