Why would you expect him to move to your country when you dont want to move to his?

No way man take care of your needs.

Yeah and for me at least my job its intense so I am just too fucked at the end of the day to care about socialising especially with new people anyway.

I think it can be easier if you are living with other expats as everyone is in the same boat and want to connect with someone so why not other expats, it ususally happens like that.