I’m Japanese who married to American in the US. I moved to the US 3 year ago, married 2 years ago. We had our baby last year and it’s been definitely challenging for me as his family is older and not as easy to ask for help. I wish my mom was here to help me. I just want to go home when I’m tired and ask my family to take care of the baby for a couple of hours… I don’t know about the language or identity part yet but I imagine that my daughter will point out my English pronunciation in the future :( At the same time I hope my daughter will be a kind and open minded person who can understand the situation like me and not judgemental.