Only if you and your husband both stick to it. I had a Spanish colleague who lived in France and also speaks French fluently. The father is French. The children speak French fluently obviously. The kids knew the mom understands French, so it’s of course very tempting to just respond in French (this is the language they are most comfortable with) even when the mother speaks in Spanish. So, what she did was that whenever the children would start speaking to her in French early on she would point to her ears and basically make them understand that she didn’t understand them. So later on they really only responded in Spanish to her mom. She once told me that in school one of her sons would stand in front of her teacher and speak in French, then he’d turn around and speak in Spanish to her, while his mom spoke French to the teacher.
I grew up with two languages and when I got more comfortable with one I would tend to respond in the 2nd language that my parents weren’t good at but understood. They hated it. :)
Only if you and your husband both stick to it. I had a Spanish colleague who lived in France and also speaks French fluently. The father is French. The children speak French fluently obviously. The kids knew the mom understands French, so it’s of course very tempting to just respond in French (this is the language they are most comfortable with) even when the mother speaks in Spanish. So, what she did was that whenever the children would start speaking to her in French early on she would point to her ears and basically make them understand that she didn’t understand them. So later on they really only responded in Spanish to her mom. She once told me that in school one of her sons would stand in front of her teacher and speak in French, then he’d turn around and speak in Spanish to her, while his mom spoke French to the teacher.
I grew up with two languages and when I got more comfortable with one I would tend to respond in the 2nd language that my parents weren’t good at but understood. They hated it. :)