Yeah, definitely, I’m not denying that. Im just saying it doesn’t fit my personal lifestyle goals. I definitely don’t plan to have kids

I’m looking to leave and I’m probably in the upper 10%. The main reason is simply that America does not support a lifestyle I want to live

99% of America is big gaudy houses connected by roads for cars and no sidewalks. It’s feels so lonely here, there’s no sense of community. Driving everywhere is just part of life. Your options for a walkable urban environment are Boston (small), Chicago (medium), NYC (big). All pretty cold, and since I want a bigger city my only option is nyc and its stupid expensive