I moved to Australia back in 2016 and while not in an immediate rush, I am starting to put together a gameplan for an eventual return.

For those who may question why, I initially left as a 25 year old backpacker and now at the ripe old age of 32, my priorities have just changed, as is the natural way of things.

There’s greater potential for career growth back in the UK and with home ownership being a primary goal of mine, I feel much more comfortable pursuing that and investing in my own country.

Obviously having a support network of family around me again will be a much welcome change as well.

I don’t take everything I read online as gospel, especially social media but some have suggested I might be quite shocked to see how things have changed since I’ve been away.

As such, I’m curious to get more perspectives on what life might be like when I arrive back in the motherland.

Any thoughts or experiences welcome, please share!

  • scythianqueen@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Moving ‘back’ is difficult.

    I’m a fellow Brit who’s very close in age to you, and also moved away at a similar age to you (I travelled and lived in multiple countries). I relocated my base back to the U.K. due to the pandemic, though I’ve continued to go abroad for a few months at a time each year.

    If you see career opportunities here, then that’s great. I personally am mostly still here because of my partner (who ironically isn’t British, but is based here for work right now) and supporting my family with some things. But I would prefer to live elsewhere.

    The biggest change I’ve seen in the time I was away is the cost of living - the relative cost of food, transport, etc, seems much higher compared to the minimum and average salaries. Moreover, having lived overseas, it’s really easy to be hyper-aware of whichever things you personally like LESS about your home country.

    I’ve been discussing it with my friends who have also lived abroad and returned home. And with my partner who it’s keen to go back to his own home country (but will have to, at least for a while). Initially, it’s exciting to be back and enjoy things you missed. But after a while the reverse culture shock is isolating.

    The other thing which I think many people struggle to adapt to moving to the U.K. from elsewhere is the short daylight hours this time of year. If you’ve been in one of the sunnier parts of Oz (like Brisbane or north of there), then I think you might not enjoy getting used to 6 months of relative darkness again.

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      1 year ago

      I want to echo the moving back sentiment, it’s not easy. One of the things that shocked me when I ended up back where I grew up was that I couldn’t just reconnect with people I hadn’t seen in years and it wasn’t easy to make new friends either. I found it very isolating.