Tired of constantly having conversations like this:

“Where are you from?”

“USA”

“But where are you really from?/But whats your nationality?/Are you actually american?.. like… full american?”

American isnt a race! American =/= white. Yes im “full american” even though im ethnically latino! If you want to know my ethnicity/race then just ask me that instead of implying im not a “real” american.

I know most people asking this arent doing so from a place of malice, but damn does it get tiring after the 100th time.

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    I have a friend who are Asian but became German

    He didn’t became german, he got german citizenship.

    German is a nationality and an ethnicity that goes back thousands of years. You don’t magically become a german because you live there 7 years.

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      Yes and that’s why so much inbreeding and disabilities… You are a very small country, America on the other hand is all immigrants so… No issue there at all…

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        There’s absolutely no inbreeding in Denmark. We’re one of the most outbred countries in the world. We stopped marrying cousins 600 years ago.

        Turkey on the other hand.

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      A friend of mine’s grandparents immigrated to Germany in the 50s. We both grew up in the same village, both speak German natively, both went to the same school. Still he is considered Turkish and I am German.

      How exactly is thousand years of history important for my personal life? I don’t have memories of bashing in roman heads in Teutoburg, chasing Latvians out of newly conquered Teuton land or putting Jews into gas chambers. I learned about all of these in school, just as my friend. Why me may or may not having ancestors who may or may not have done that is now important to be considered part of the in-group is not something I will ever understand.

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        Still he is considered Turkish and I am German.

        Because he is turkish.

        Turks in germany are not germans, they vote for Erdogan in the elections and they keep their citizenship.

        They have turkish names, they name their children turkish names, they follow a turkish religion, when they gather at home they eat turkish food and they often speak with each other in turkish.

        They’re turks.

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            Turks in Turkey or visitors, tourist and students from Turkey, they’re great.

            Turks who want to live in Europe, but not become europeans, who want to change our countries into Turkey? No, they should go back to Turkey.

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              So you believe that Turkish people shouldn’t live in Germany at all, and there’s no path to assimilation.

              The friend sounds assimilated, but you already seem to know who they voted for and exactly their character, and you don’t tolerate it at all. They aren’t German and should leave, even though they were born and raised in Germany.

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                So you believe that Turkish people shouldn’t live in Germany at all, and there’s no path to assimilation.

                It’s very easy to assimilate yourself. Marry a german, have german children, give them german names and baptize them.

                If you marry another turk, give turk names and follow a turk religion and continue to live as a turk, then you’re a turk, living in germany.

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                  Thank you for enlightening me about this stuff. I am actually not baptized, and I follow neither the middle eastern religion that dominated Germany the last 1000 years nor one of the Teutonic ones that existed before. Oh no. And I have the most popular name for German boys in the 90s, but I just googled it and it turns out it’s origin is hebrew…Oh no. And I have to admit I do not like Sauerkraut much…Oh no, my whole identity is disappearing.

                  No, honestly, do you know how many people in my life have given a fuck about me being religious? It’s 0.

                  And the same way, it’s not going to matter if a turkish-looking person does all the things you want. They are still going to be judged and stereotyped by how they look, nothing else.

                  I mean, you yourself already knew everything about my friend from his culinary habits to political views, all without asking him a single question. It’s like magic, right?

                  My kids will probably face the same problems if they don’t primarily inherit my features because my SO isn’t white. Then, even the “1000 years of history” that I will give them with my magical blood will matter for many people.

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                    Let me tell you something, I don’t go around seeing some brown person and think “foreigner”, I think “fellow human in Denmark”.

                    If they give me just any small inclination that they identify as danish, then I will view them as danish.

                    If on the other hand they speak a ghetto-arabic language with each other and they dress in ways that no or few danes do and if they behave in a threathening manner and if by their behaviour they make it very clear they are in opposition to what I consider Denmark, then I’ll take them on it and consider them as foreign.

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          I know Germany is stereotypically that country with strict rules for everything, but you will be happy to learn that it does not actually police its citizens about what they can eat and how they can communicate.

          I do enjoy Turkish food a lot as well, though Korean food is probably still my favorite. :)

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          Sure? Relevant why?

          The dude is obviously disliked by many people for various of reasons and even then I have never seen anyone say: “Well, he isn’t real American, he isn’t one of us, he is just a migrant and his kids also will never be American because they don’t have our hundreds years of history through our magical blood”. Because Americans don’t really do that.

          Maybe you are referencing someone who said that, and I missed it, but the issue with picking a celebrity is that you will find just about everything being said about them.

          Still, for an average white dude like you and me, it would be no problem to migrate to the US and be considered American after we get citizenship and our kids who are born there would definitely have no problem being considered American.

          That’s kind of what the whole thread is about.

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      You’ll be downvoted for the truth. I’m an immigrant and I can totally understand what you’re saying

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        Then don’t complain about the school shootings and white nationalists and everything else that comes with a low trust society, since you’re taking a very nationalistic view there already

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          The school shootings and white nationalism are not because they’re more open to immigrants, otherwise Canada would be a failed state at this point and Toronto would have a homicide rate that puts Central America to shame.

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        Good luck keeping America together once it is no longer a majority white country. It will break apart.

        Rome did the same. Look into the later stage emperors and how the army got increasingly multicultural until basically the army was made up of germanics who then decided, hey, who are we protecting.