I’m in Britain and I really hate the eyelashes, fillers and makeup here for young girls sometimes and the intense pressure I see everywhere to get them. Poor girlies.

  • OvidPerl@alien.topB
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    American, currently living in France.

    My (French) wife and her mother would often argue. I’d step in and tell them to calm down and they would look at me like I had spontaneously grown a second head or something. They were confused that I thought they were arguing.

    The French often passionately discuss topics. They are direct, they are forceful, they work to get their point across. To the US eye, it looks a hell of a lot like an argument. To the French, it’s often how the communicate about important things. I’ve heard other Americans (and Brits) say the same thing.

    In fact, it’s the reason I almost didn’t marry this wonderful woman. The first time we met, in London, I thought it was going terribly because she was really, really interesting (and beautiful), but she argued against everything I said and I was pretty sure she didn’t like me.

    Turns out she wasn’t arguing with me. She was having a great evening. We’ve been married 13 years, but this still catches me off guard.

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      Yeah. They shout at each other all the time. In the street, in the office, in cafes, it’s mad.

      I can count office blow outs in the UK on one hand … In fact two fingers. It’s NOT something that’s done. In France, yeah it’s fine.